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How to grow your Facebook Page. How my Facebook Page grew from 3k to 100k Followers in less than a Year

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How to grow your Facebook Page. How my Facebook Page grew from 3k to 100k Followers in less than a Year and my Videos hitting millions of Views. This is what I shared in this Ebook, preorder now for a 25% discount. These are my Proofs: Here's a Screenshot of my Facebook Page, tap on the image to visit the Page. 1. Here's a Screenshot of my Video that has over 20M Views,  Click here  to see it.  2. Here's a Screenshot of my Video that has over 20M Views,  Click here  to see it. 3. Here's a Screenshot of another of my Video that has over 20M Views, Click here to see it. There are many more of my Videos that has reached millions of Views, you can visit my Facebook Page HERE to see them.

How to increase your income level

If you want to keep struggling financially, please keep working for money You think you have job security? What about your time? Do you have control of it? You are mandated to go to work except you are on leave. You can't decide to stay home because you feel like even as a top Executive in the Organization where you work, you must keep working your ass off until you get tired, fired or retired. Every month, you already know the specific amount to expect as your income, and you are constrained to limit your level to that which you earn. I have a friend who retired a few years ago from CBN, Haven worked there for 40years, he got the job right after his Youth service, so he is in his 60s (hey! What are you thinking? How can a young girl like me have a sixty-something year old friend? Nhnm! Stop thinking negatively, he is not the only male friend I have that old). This is the way I was created, folks much older and younger than me are more attracted to me than my peers, it use

How to build a loyal Audience

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This is how you should think when creating content for your audience. Do not forget that people can easily forget what you said, but not how you made them feel so when creating Contents, think about how you want to make your audience feel; happy, inspired, challenged, or empowered? To make them feel happy, create entertaining Content, like singing with your quack voice (they will laugh at your voice and will remember you for that). Also, the content doesn't have to be originally yours but make sure it's still fresh and juicy, if they saw it first from you, then you have won their heart somehow... To get them inspired, share an experience that is inspirational, could be a  fictional story or a true story but this will surely make them remember you anytime they recall the story. To leave them challenged, share an accomplishment that isn't common, either yours or someone else. This will surely have a toll on their desire to intensify their efforts. To empower them,

Staying positive

I have just been so ungrateful! I didn’t realize how much God has given to me. I thought my life with muscular Dystrophy was the most difficult life to live until I saw a lot of black-Americans and white people who are in worst conditions.   God is God and for whom he is, he proves us wrong about life. From the videos I watched on youtube today about thebaxterboys, about a parent with oestogenesis-imperfecta who also adopted a child with the same condition; They are all on wheel-chair yet, they lived! God always makes a way, he is the omnipotent! The way maker and miracle worker, who doesn’t ever deny anybody of his love, he is right there, we just are unable to see him but if we pay more attention, we would. I started crying after watching those videos on youtube, I was broken! Now I realized that I haven’t been thankful & grateful to God but he has been so patient with me. The problem is that most often than   not, we are so consumed with earthly desires, so much more that

HOW TO SET A GOAL AND ACHIEVE IT

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What is a Vision? ‘Vision’ means the ability to see, or plan something for the future. It is an image that you want to create. Vision is always a future-oriented program. It is not about an individual’s image, it is about what they want to become. Vision should be greater than goal and to have a vision, one has to visualize and imagine a lot of things. The Greek word /horama/ means to supernaturally gaze at an object externally or have an inspired appearance internally. Each vision usually has its own purpose, but one general purpose is that it inspires the beholder. Dictionary meaning of vision The act or power of anticipating that which will or may come to be: prophetic vision; the vision of an entrepreneur. Vision is your why. Vision gives something direction. It’s your desired future. Your vision includes what you believe in (your core values) and what you want in your future (what you want to be). It’s the powerful reason why you want to do something;  your overarchi

How Money Comes

"I think it's better you fold your hands and let hunger kill you ooo". Since you are not ready to go and acquire a skill that you can use to solve problems in the society, just because you have a certificate abi? Please keep yourself idle ooo,  you hear? I don't know how many times I will say it; are you jobless?  No money, no capital to start a business, no family or friend to lend you money, so you decided to turn yourself into a nonentity, roaming about/staying at home to sleep or watch TV, abi? What happened to your hands and legs?  don't you know that your strength or brain is enough resources to get you out of financial disasters? People like us who are physically challenged will give all just to become physically okay, yet we are not relenting. I hate to ask for money, nah! It's so hard for me to... even when I know I will get if I ask, but I prefer to do what I can and get money and solve my problems and even support others who are hardworking.

HOW MANY NICE THINGS DO YOU DO IN A DAY?

If you can count the number of nice things you do in a day then you are not nice at all. It means you are looking for reward to your niceness. Being nice should be an unconscious act. Remember, every relationship that will ever last has a lot to do with both parties. I hear people say they are lonely, they're looking for someone to love them. They want to be in a relationship, they want a boyfriend or girlfriend to care for them, then need a true friend and talks like that, but little did they know that you can't have what you can't give. Or do you expect God to bless you with a female friend so that you can turn the girl to your girlfriend and start having sex lest you will accuse her of not loving you? So many undergraduates and teenagers fall victims of abused relationship. A guy will set eye on a good girl today and turn her into a bad girl tomorrow. When you will be pressuring her to fuck you just so that she can prove her love for you knowing fully well that she&

WHO ARE YOU?

I repeat; Who are you?  I didn't ask you where are you from nor did I ask you what your name is, don't get confused. Its okay if you begin to answer by starting with your name and where you're from. But hope that will not be all? Hold it right there if you are about adding that you are a graduate and probably studied so-so-so...and so. That's not the answer to the question. Nope! Who are you?  There has to be something striking about you. Something unique and spectacular about you. Believe it or not,  you are not just a regular person on the street that goes to work/school and come home. You were extraordinarily created with gifts that money can't buy. If you still don't know who you are by now,  then begin to do all you can to discover who you are and what your purpose in this life is. Let me illustrate an example by telling you who I am.  My name is Oluchi Sonia Okwenna but you can call me Queenideas. Somewhere in a village called Umuomam, in Osumenyi tow

ARE YOUR EXPENSES YOUR DIRECTOR?

Have you ever seen someone who can afford a perfume of 15k but can't pay 1k to attend a business seminar? Haven't you seen girls who are always on time (high class babe/ fancy babe), whenever you see them, the accessories on their bodies are so lousy but still put 50 Naira offering in church? I have seen a father that sent his children to big-big schools but couldn't allow his family enjoy decent meals. As an undergraduate, I was also doing business and I sold hair extensions. I had a customer-coursemate who always owed me anytime she buys, and I learned she couldn't attend lectures if her nails were not fixed yet, she is always among the last to pay departmental dues or buy an important textbook. Are your expenses your director or are you the director of your expenses? Your answer to this question is also the answer to why you are at the level of standard of living you are. I always say that I rather spend to acquire knowledge and skills than to live like a big ga

HOW TO OVERCOME 5 COMMON BAD HABITS

No one was born with any bad habit, all bad habits were learned at some point in time and most times unconsiously. Before you can get rid of any bad habit, first, you need to admit the habit is bad, then you can learn how to work on it. 5 Common bad habits are: 1. Waking up late: Everyone should wake up early in the morning (5am-6:30am), even if you have no where to go. The reason is that, opportunity can knock at anytime, and you will miss these opportunities if you are still asleep. It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity than to have an opportunity and not be prepared. Just wake up early, and find anything to keep you busy. You can meditate, think up a plan on how to move forward, do domestic chores or even prepare and go to anywhere you can meet people. Just find something to keep you busy.

ARE YOU EXCELLENT AT THE SMALL THINGS YOU DO?

Many of us are good complainers eh! We complain of everything and everyone. Why am I not married like everyone else? Why have I not made money like everyone else? Why have I not gotten a good job? Why can't I still afford a car, see many of my mates now have their own cars? Why this and that? Sometimes we even blame God; why hasn't God answer my prayers? Can I see anyone who is not guilty of any of these complains? But the simple truth is: Are we excellent at the little we have? Many single guys are

THE MOST IGNORED VISITOR

THE MOST IGNORED VISITOR Always showing up unannouced, and doesn't appear to look good. Very humble to wait at the door and will never knock hard or persistenly. If you refused to open, it will quietly leave. Likes to disguise itself when coming, thinking you will still recognize it but most often than not, you ignore it. You don't have that kind of time to play pranks. Though it likes you and will keep visiting, it doesn't have patience to wait at your door till whenever you feel like opening. Once you open your door, it will come in happily, very friendly and comes with plenty goodies. Instead of coming to eat at your house, it comes to give you what you need. Imagine how much you have ignored this special visitor called "Opportunity."

TIME!

If I kept a boyfriend, I probably would have been sleeping next to my bf at this time of the night committing every inapropriate act, but No! I choose not to be a girlfriend to any guy (I'm not wishing I had one) that is why I have enough reason to research, read, and get better, because I wanna keep impacting positively. 24hours is barely enough for anyone who wants to exceed the walls of average, it means you have to sacrifice hours of your sleep to complete the needful. While you may be

A PART OF MY LIFE

I am alive but a part of my life is history and another part of my life is the future. Somethings I did in the history and I wish they were never a part of my life. Some people that were my history caused me pains

YOUR IMPERFECTIONS

Your Imperfections A lot of people are afraid to admit their imperfections. They don't wanna look at their flaws at the face and admit they have those flaws. They run away from their errors and forgeting that it is part of who they are. Hellooooo! Are you trying to prove you are perfect when you are only a human? Who are you trying to impress? Those people you are trying to impress also got some flaws, they also have imperfections, these are part of what make up who we are. Why do you want people to see only the good in you? You flaunt your goodies and hide your flaws, and then you will come out tomorrow and accuse another person of pretending?

AND SO WHAT!

AND SO WHAT? Today in my office, a staff asked the hostess to sip from his can drink, and the gal exploded "I DON'T DRINK ALCOHOL!" and when she was asked why, she said it is wild girls that take alcohol and this got me smiling because when I was much younger, I used to be like that. I was so rigid with my principles, I don't shake hands with the male folks because I thought it was immoral, I don't allow male visitors to my house because I thought they might rape me, plus the fact that my parents would never allow such.

I'M HAPPY MY BOOK IS INSPIRING PEOPLE

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You can't imagine how happy I am right now. I was going through my feeds on Facebook and I stumbled on a post. Read what is on that screenshot below. It's a section of my book and it was one of the people who bought my book that took the pain of typing it and posting on Facebook, if she wasn't inspired, she wouldn't have done that. ♥ TIQS SHE JUST MADE MY DAY!

HAPPY JUNE

The evidence that you exist is the impact you make in people's lives and so I challenge you in this new month to come out of your comfort zone and do extraordinary things. Show that your existence is important to humanity. Let your praise for God be deeper than it has ever been and watch you fly higher. I CELEBRATE YOU! HAPPY JUNE! TIQS

DISCOVERING YOUR PURPOSE

DISCOVERING YOUR PURPOSE As long as you are alive, you definitely have a purpose for living. “It is said that the graveyard is the wealthiest place because a lot of people died without achieving their purpose in this world and so they died with all the gifts and talents given to them to accomplish their purpose. At this junction, I will like to remind you that everyone has a purpose, therefore, it will be necessary that you do everything you can to discover your purpose. To discover your purpose, consider the following: 1. Discovering your purpose has everything to do with your spiritual life. It is only through the guidance of the Holy Spirit that you can know your purpose in this world. Grow your relationship with God and you can do these by the daily study of the bible, commitment in working for God, praying & fasting.

STOP COMPLAINING OF NO JOB

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It pains me when I see able-bodied people wandering around and lamenting about their financial status. I don't think it is fair at all that a sane person who is physically ok will wake in the morning and not go anywhere, yet, complaining of no job. Look around, you will see many opportunities. But I think the problem is: we are not humble enough to accept the available jobs: domestic assistant, messenger, car washing, laundry services, marketing, etc. We all are waiting for  white-collar-jobs meanwhile many are incompetent to even handle these jobs when the opportunities knock. I have many physical disabilities but I don't depend on anyone to take care of me. I keep hustling and that is what you should do too.

YOUR PASSION IS YOUR TREASURE

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Let me begin by asking you few questions? What is your passion? Have you discovered what you are so interested in and it makes you so happy every time you have an opportunity to do it? What will you love to do for the rest of your life if it can put food on your table, provide you with shelter and give you a good life? The answer to all these questions is simply “passion.” No matter how much money you have, it can’t be substituted with passion. Your passion can drive you crazy and make you go the extra miles. Your passion is who you are. It is has everything to do with your existence,