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How to grow your Facebook Page. How my Facebook Page grew from 3k to 100k Followers in less than a Year and my Videos hitting millions of Views. This is what I shared in this Ebook, preorder now for a 25% discount. These are my Proofs: Here's a Screenshot of my Facebook Page, tap on the image to visit the Page. 1. Here's a Screenshot of my Video that has over 20M Views,  Click here  to see it.  2. Here's a Screenshot of my Video that has over 20M Views,  Click here  to see it. 3. Here's a Screenshot of another of my Video that has over 20M Views, Click here to see it. There are many more of my Videos that has reached millions of Views, you can visit my Facebook Page HERE to see them.

WHO ARE YOU?

I repeat; Who are you?  I didn't ask you where are you from nor did I ask you what your name is, don't get confused. Its okay if you begin to answer by starting with your name and where you're from. But hope that will not be all? Hold it right there if you are about adding that you are a graduate and probably studied so-so-so...and so. That's not the answer to the question. Nope! Who are you?  There has to be something striking about you. Something unique and spectacular about you. Believe it or not,  you are not just a regular person on the street that goes to work/school and come home. You were extraordinarily created with gifts that money can't buy. If you still don't know who you are by now,  then begin to do all you can to discover who you are and what your purpose in this life is. Let me illustrate an example by telling you who I am.  My name is Oluchi Sonia Okwenna but you can call me Queenideas. Somewhere in a village called Umuomam, in Osumenyi tow

ARE YOUR EXPENSES YOUR DIRECTOR?

Have you ever seen someone who can afford a perfume of 15k but can't pay 1k to attend a business seminar? Haven't you seen girls who are always on time (high class babe/ fancy babe), whenever you see them, the accessories on their bodies are so lousy but still put 50 Naira offering in church? I have seen a father that sent his children to big-big schools but couldn't allow his family enjoy decent meals. As an undergraduate, I was also doing business and I sold hair extensions. I had a customer-coursemate who always owed me anytime she buys, and I learned she couldn't attend lectures if her nails were not fixed yet, she is always among the last to pay departmental dues or buy an important textbook. Are your expenses your director or are you the director of your expenses? Your answer to this question is also the answer to why you are at the level of standard of living you are. I always say that I rather spend to acquire knowledge and skills than to live like a big ga

WHAT IS YOUR PERSONALITY LIKE? (PART 1)

Come-on! Are you proud of who you are?  Have you ever had low self-esteem? What is your personality like? Please don't feel ashamed to admit it. As a child, I used to be ashamed of who I was, I thought I wasn't beautiful enough and my eldest brother even contributed to it. He made me felt like my legs were not hot!  Whenever he sits close to me,  he would grab the upper part of my legs, hit it,  shake it and call it Mba Ji (Yam-legs), because of that, I disliked short-skirts, I hardly wore a short skirt/gown, I made sure my legs were always covered so that people wouldn't notice the legs that my brothers called yam. Sometimes I would press it so hard to see if the yam part will disappear, but it never worked, I even had to ask my Dad one-day if I had a Yam-leg, and my dad said No, that my legs were beautifully created by God.  I reported my eldest brother to him and my dad cautioned him and pampered me not to mind him.

HOW IMPORTANT IS A MALE CHILD?

They begin by saying a wive without a male Child has not   secured her home.  Some men will look at a woman's hip and say: this one looks like the one that can bear a male child (as educated as he is o).  Is that not how one of the suitors I had kept saying: ukwu gia yiri ukwu umunwanyi ndi Hebrew, Nke ga amu nwa siririwerere (translation: this your hips looks that of the Hebrew women that can easily bear a child), I would just smile at him,  wondering why he's so into hips.  He should have saved all that calculations and think of how to make money. Back to the subject of discussion, why do many marriages without a male child suffer so much?  And it makes the wife insecure as she keeps trying to conceive a male child.  Do you know that many of these male children most families  hustle for, end up not taking care of their parents? Once they are adults,  say 25-35 years,  they spend much more on their girlfriend/wive instead of their parents and siblings if any? Yet...

HOW TO OVERCOME 5 COMMON BAD HABITS

No one was born with any bad habit, all bad habits were learned at some point in time and most times unconsiously. Before you can get rid of any bad habit, first, you need to admit the habit is bad, then you can learn how to work on it. 5 Common bad habits are: 1. Waking up late: Everyone should wake up early in the morning (5am-6:30am), even if you have no where to go. The reason is that, opportunity can knock at anytime, and you will miss these opportunities if you are still asleep. It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity than to have an opportunity and not be prepared. Just wake up early, and find anything to keep you busy. You can meditate, think up a plan on how to move forward, do domestic chores or even prepare and go to anywhere you can meet people. Just find something to keep you busy.

ARE YOU EXCELLENT AT THE SMALL THINGS YOU DO?

Many of us are good complainers eh! We complain of everything and everyone. Why am I not married like everyone else? Why have I not made money like everyone else? Why have I not gotten a good job? Why can't I still afford a car, see many of my mates now have their own cars? Why this and that? Sometimes we even blame God; why hasn't God answer my prayers? Can I see anyone who is not guilty of any of these complains? But the simple truth is: Are we excellent at the little we have? Many single guys are

GOOD GIRLS GET MARRIED LATE

This is the trend nowadays. When you see a lady between the age of 25-35 years that is still single, what comes to your mind? (Don't lie o), you will start thinking: this one she's still single, who knows why she's not married up till now, maybe she's not a wife material, maybe she is not that beautiful, maybe she lived a way-ward life and different men have slept with her,  maybe she has a bad character or even maybe she's cursed or possessed or have a spiritual husband. Who told you that? What makes you even think like that? Does it mean that all the girls getting married early (18-24 years), are the most beautiful, or have good character and wife materials? Who told you so too? If that is the way it is, then why are the men complaining that the true colors of their wife came out only after they got married? Some men will say that women are good pretenders, wait till you marry them. A proverb in my language (Igbo) even puts it as: Nwanyi bu Ngwugwu ekechiriekec

YOU WANT TO START A RELATIONSHIP?

Many of us are in a relationship today not because we are in love nor because our partners are great lovers. Not even because our needs are met in the relationship but because we are emotionally irrational, our feelings are subjected to false insecurity, we are dispose of our confidence to stay single till we find and get magneted to our right partners. This feeling of lack of confidence to stay single while waiting for the right person is what puts us in misuse. Our time, care, effort and resources are wasted in the live of the wrong partner. I use to be like that in those 7years

THE MOST IGNORED VISITOR

THE MOST IGNORED VISITOR Always showing up unannouced, and doesn't appear to look good. Very humble to wait at the door and will never knock hard or persistenly. If you refused to open, it will quietly leave. Likes to disguise itself when coming, thinking you will still recognize it but most often than not, you ignore it. You don't have that kind of time to play pranks. Though it likes you and will keep visiting, it doesn't have patience to wait at your door till whenever you feel like opening. Once you open your door, it will come in happily, very friendly and comes with plenty goodies. Instead of coming to eat at your house, it comes to give you what you need. Imagine how much you have ignored this special visitor called "Opportunity."

TIME!

If I kept a boyfriend, I probably would have been sleeping next to my bf at this time of the night committing every inapropriate act, but No! I choose not to be a girlfriend to any guy (I'm not wishing I had one) that is why I have enough reason to research, read, and get better, because I wanna keep impacting positively. 24hours is barely enough for anyone who wants to exceed the walls of average, it means you have to sacrifice hours of your sleep to complete the needful. While you may be