HOW MANY NICE THINGS DO YOU DO IN A DAY?

If you can count the number of nice things you do in a day then you are not nice at all. It means you are looking for reward to your niceness. Being nice should be an unconscious act. Remember, every relationship that will ever last has a lot to do with both parties.

I hear people say they are lonely, they're looking for someone to love them. They want to be in a relationship, they want a boyfriend or girlfriend to care for them, then need a true friend and talks like that, but little did they know that you can't have what you can't give. Or do you expect God to bless you with a female friend so that you can turn the girl to your girlfriend and start having sex lest you will accuse her of not loving you?

So many undergraduates and teenagers fall victims of abused relationship. A guy will set eye on a good girl today and turn her into a bad girl tomorrow. When you will be pressuring her to fuck you just so that she can prove her love for you knowing fully well that she's a virgin, what do you expect her to become in the future? (you're not nice at all).


The worst part is that, after she has done it with you, and you both finally breakup, in the future, it will be more difficult for her to abstain from sex because any guy she is in a relationship with will not take a "No," as the guy will justify his demand for sex for the lame daft reason that she's no longer a  virgin, so...?

You must be ready to give what you are looking for, If want somebody to love you, then show love to people. If you are looking for a true friend, be ready to make sacrifices for your friends. Burn the damn fucking airtime, spend time to visit, spend money to treat your friends, buy gifts for their birthdays when you can afford to. It takes a lot of effort to build lasting relationship and it begins with being nice.

Sometimes you can cook a very delicious food and share with your neighbors just to show love and care even when there's no celebration going on (I learned that from my neighbor: Mama Nmasi), she can be so nice eh! But it doesn't cost much to be nice. It's a good practice everyone and anyone can adopt. One of the immediate benefits of being nice is that it keeps you young and happy.

Won't you feel happy when you people around you don't want to let you travel just because they don't want to miss you. When ever you show up,  your friends are smiling, your neighbors give you a warm welcome?It all begins with being nice. It is a wonderful attribute that is charming and attractive. I pray that, henceforth, we will be loaded with every element of niceness. We shall become nice people all the days of our lives.

Enjoy your day!