Wife to be

Dear Wife to be…,


Have you finished the assignment? The one about knowing why you are still single? Did I hear you say you still don’t know why? Your husband is getting tired of waiting for you. He has been searching for you but you are nowhere to be found because you haven’t finished and submitted your assignment. He is the one to mark you; or have you forgotten?

The Chores; you still don’t wake early enough to finish the house chores before leaving for work and your excuse is that you are working and will need to meet up with time. But then, if you can’t finish the chores before leaving for work now that you are still single, so your house remains untidy because of the so-called work, how will you manage to finish it when you are married with kids?

Oh! The Cooking: You still eat out right? You see! What is your reason for not making sure you have food at home? If you cook three times a week, you won’t have to eat out except once in a while on an emergency. If you can’t meet up with cooking for yourself now that you are still single. Is it when you are now married that you can? I don’t think so.

Your Boyfriend: You keep an Intimate Boyfriend? That means you are already enjoying sex with a man who might have been destined to be another woman’s husband. Hey! Stop it! You are provoking the same God you pray to give your husband. I just hope you stop this before it’s too late. Moreover, what’s there to look forward to again if you can’t be patient to enjoy sex with your future husband?

Spirituality: How about Commitment to God: Do you still participate in church cleaning and other activities? Remember the saying that “if you can’t serve God in your youthful age, then you might never have enough time and strength to serve him again.”

Looks: I hope you still have the time to look good despite your busy schedule. Looking good has nothing to do with wearing flashy and expensive garments and accessories. It’s just about good fashion combination that can display smartness and cuteness. You need to know styles that fit your body type and then stick to it.

Politeness: How do you keep relationship with friends, neighbors, church members, clubs and if strangers? How nice and polite are you to them? Most times, it is someone that will recommend or connect you to your future husband. So the bottom line is to be nice to all asunder.