HOW TO TREAT A VISITOR

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You had a visitor in your house, are you suppose to ask the person whether you should bring food for the person or you are to serve what you have and let the person say "no" if he doesn't want?
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Pamela Niemogha Abanyam To serve what you have, in my place, asking means you don't want to give cos most pple will say no even when they are hungry out of shame

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 · May 26 at 6:42pm

Queenideas Oly Okwenna I think you are right. But what if you serve the person and he says "no thanks?"

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 · May 26 at 7:18pm

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Ikechukwu Cito My take on this, in some case you can ask and in some case you serve without asking. Why is like this, is because in terms of Food you have to ask the person. But if is normal cola, like drink or cola nut, garden egg,etc...you don't need to ask that pe...See More

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 · May 26 at 8:33pm · Edited

Queenideas Oly Okwenna Wow! Great idea! I love this

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 · May 26 at 8:35pm

Prince Dozie In the African Culture, when you have a visitor or group of visitors, first of all get them water or juice to drink then offer them whatever you have for then to eat, visitor is a stranger so therefore asking if you should offer them food shows no sign of humanitarian, maybe if your family or closet friends come then you ask if you should offer them something or not! That's my take on this!!

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 · May 27 at 10:37am

Queenideas Oly Okwenna Good one

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 · May 27 at 10:54am

D'best Monday Asking means you don't really want to serve him or her the food bt serving without asking shows it comes from your heart.

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 · May 26 at 8:12pm

Prince Dozie I don't agree

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 · May 27 at 10:32am

Augustine Akaire For me,it depends on the kind of person that visit you and the relationship btween the both of you.some may even demand for the food themselves without being asked,while some will say yes or no when asked nomatter the kind of food.still some may eat or not when served even if you didnt ask them before bringing the food.

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 · May 27 at 6:48am

Pamela Niemogha Abanyam Close friends and relatives are not considered as visitors,some can even Walk to the kitchen themselves, they should be kept aside

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 · May 27 at 10:39am

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Mercy Hosea When asking it seems like u don't want to give the person so Serve the person, if he says no then u return the food

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 · May 27 at 8:58pm · Edited

Gideon John TO SERVE THE FOOD BECAUSE OUT OF SHAME SOME WILL NOT ANSWER U

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 · May 27 at 6:07am

Chidinma Udoka Mi ,I go ask u ohhh

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 · May 26 at 6:30pm

Ngozi Omenife U suppose to serve what u have,

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 · May 27 at 9:23pm

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